other words, the wife is to see to it that she submits to her husband just as she is to ensure that she respects him. It’s not the husband’s responsibility to get her to submit; it’s hers. If he forces her to submit, then he short-circuits her submission and reduces it to something else. Submission is not submission—at least not in the middle voice—unless the one who submits actively does the submitting. The submission of a wife must be motivated by the personal will of the wife. In other words,
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